The Knoxville
News-Sentinel
Amy
McRary, News-Sentinel staff writer
July 29, 2001
A
chance meeting becomes a life's mission for Knoxville woman.
The small dirty child looked out of place peddling trinkets from the
heavy bag she dragged along the Acapulco beach. But Lori Santoro was
the only person who noticed.
The girl's feet were burned from the sand; her skin rough from sun.
Her once pretty ruffled dress was faded and dirty; her black hair
matted to her scalp. The vacationing Santoro ran to stop the child
struggling in 104-degree June heat. Speaking in Spanish, Santoro discovered
the girl's name was Sara and she was about 3 1/2. But Sara couldn't
say where her mother was or where she lived.
Panicked, Santoro searched in vain for answers from other adults and
peddlers at the beach market. "Nobody cared. Basically the answers
I got were, 'She's from the other side of the mountain,' which was
a very poor area. That she was selling things to stay alive, to help
her family.
"The earth stopped rotating for me. No child should have to sell
things to survive at 3 1/2. I thought, 'I've got to do something for
this child.'" Santoro gave Sara all the money in her pocket --
about $10. She asked to take Sara's photo and coaxed the wary child
into a half smile. Even posing, Sara clutched the plastic holder she
wore from a string around her neck to hold pesos. She left, pulling
her bag along the beach.
Santoro felt helpless. "How could I let her go? But I couldn't
take her home. And no one cared. No one cared. I was just out of college;
there was nothing financially I could do. I just couldn't do anything.
I just stood on the beach and cried until I couldn't see her."
The next day Santoro took a taxi to the other side of the mountain.
She saw extreme poverty, but no Sara.
The meeting of the American woman and the Mexican child lasted no
more than 20 minutes 14 years ago. "Five minutes after she left,
she probably didn't remember me," says Santoro, now 37. "But
she changed my life. She was meant to be there; I was meant to be
there. I think about her every day. ... She showed me the reality
of how many children in the world live like that."
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Santoro framed Sara's photo, and she has displayed it in her home
since their 1987 meeting. That day on the beach, she pledged some
day, some way, to help children like Sara. "I thought 'I'm just
going to do something.' It was like a little flame that kept going."
That flame has grown into Casa de Sara, or Sara's House, a charity
to help needy children in Central and South America. Santoro is founder
and executive director of the organization named to honor the child
she wanted to help so badly. The charity's main objective is to assist
orphanages and institutions caring for abandoned children, but Santoro
stresses Casa de Sara is not an adoption agency. The charity recently
received tax-exempt status and is starting to raise money to fund
a list of projects.
Santoro, a University of Tennessee graphic design graduate who has
worked as a model and on television, is a quick learner. A woman with
contagious enthusiasm, she's studying grant writing and has learned
to ask for donations and bargain for work. She's found reliable representatives
in Santa Cruz and La Paz, Bolivia, to insure delivery of donations
and supplies to the children needing help.
In six years Santoro hopes Casa de Sara will have a Bolivian office
funded by grants and staffed by board member Kathy Syndergaard. and
funded by grants. The ultimate goal is to build and run an orphanage
in Bolivia. Work to build the orphanage could begin with $250,000.
"It's a big undertaking. But we really want to make a difference
in children's lives, not just put a Band-Aid on problems," says
Santoro.
The charity's first project is to repair the roof of a government
orphanage in La Paz. Virginia schoolchildren raised $3,000 for the
project they asked Casa de Sara to administer. The next endeavor is
to raise $3,500 for kitchen equipment, typewriters, sewing machines
and educational training for 8- to 16-year-olds in a La Paz girls'
home. Another project needs $700 a year to get vitamins to two Bolivian
orphanages. All donations will go to children, Santoro says.
A key Casa de Sara goal is to help orphans get an education. Children
may stay in orphanages until they are 14. But teens with no education
or skills usually end up as shoeshine boys or prostitutes, says Santoro.
"Not everybody is going to be adopted. Most won't. We want all
of these children to have a good basic education so they can grow
up, have something to offer and have a chance in their country."
Meeting Sara also influenced Santoro's personal life. In 1998 she
and husband Craig Miller wanted to adopt a child from Mexico. Unable
to find a reliable adoption program there, they researched adoption
in other Hispanic countries. They found Children's House International,
whose South American adoption program is based in America Fork, Utah.
Syndergaard, who directs Children's House's South American program,
is also now helping Casa de Sara.
In April 2000, Santoro and Miller traveled to Santa Cruz to adopt
their 4-month-old daughter from San Lorenzo Orphanage, a Catholic-operated
program in a government building. Found abandoned as a newborn, the
baby was called Marcela. She suffered from E. coli and bronchitis
and weighed only 92 pounds. "It was the happiest day of my life,"
says Santoro. "I had my own little Sara in my arms."
But the adoption that would have taken two weeks stretched into five
because of concerns over Marcela's health. On her first night with
her new family, Marcela didn't respond to sounds. The next day a doctor
dosed Marcela with Valium, tested her reactions and proclaimed her
deaf. He advised her new parents, "You do not want this baby;
get rid of her." To which Miller replied, "You will have
to kill me to get me to leave this country without this baby."
The family made visit after visit to doctor after doctor. Finally
one physician's tests showed Marcela's hearing and health were fine.
She hadn't responded to sound because of a lack of stimulation in
the orphanage.
Now 18 months old, Marcela is a completely healthy child who hears
perfectly and speaks in Spanish and English. Santoro and Miller one
day hope to adopt another Bolivian child.
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While in Bolivia, Santoro met Canadian college students working at
San Lorenzo Orphanage through the Global Youth Network organization.
They told her about another Santa Cruz orphanage called Hogar Canaan.
Santoro went there to find 35 children living without showers, toilets
or food. "I thought, 'Here's 35 more little Saras, and I'm not
going to let this happen.' "
Santoro called Children's House International to ask for help. Syndergaard
wired $1,000. Santoro used $400 to buy food, kitchen equipment, cleaning
supplies, two toilets and two showers. She persuaded cab drivers to
load toilets, found a doctor to give the orphans free medical treatment
and used the most of the remaining $600 for medicine.
"After I left Bolivia, I thought, 'This is it. This is what I
have to do.' "
Hundreds of orphanages exist in Bolivia; Santa Cruz alone has 70.
They depend on donations to operate. "The basic needs of life
-- they don't have it. ... Something as simple as a toothbrush, washing
their hair with shampoo, washing with clean water and soap, don't
happen. Food is a daily worry," says Santoro.
"We know we can make such a difference. You are not going to
save a whole continent. You are not going to save a whole country.
You are not going to save a whole town. But if you can change the
life of one child, really change it. Or if you can change the lives
of one group of children in an orphanage -- really change their lives
-- they will go on and make their lives better. And they will change
their country.
"I knew from when I saw Sara this had to be part of my life.
There is a time, a place and a reason for everything. Now is the time
for this. I have a reminder of why in this (Sara's) picture and a
reminder in my home in my daughter. My child is one of these children.
I wish Sara could know I wish I could have done the same for her.
That day was a sad day. But it was a good day because I'm doing this."
Amy McRary can be reached at 342-6437 and amcrary@knoxnews.infi.net.
Casa de Sara, or Sara's House, is a tax-exempt charity founded by
Knoxville resident Lori Santoro to aid needy children in Central and
South America.
Tax-deductible
donations may be made to:
Casa de Sara, P.O. Box 30306, Knoxville, TN, 37930.
You may also
Donate
Online via our secure server.
For additional
information, call us at Local (865) 690-3323 or Toll Free: 866--238-4974
Or e-mail Lori Santoro, Founder and CEO: lsantoro@casadesara.org
Caption:
(Color) The Hogar Canaan orphanage in Santa Cruz, Bolivia, had one
outdoor sink before Lori Santoro and a group of Canadian students
stretched $400 to build toilets and showers for the 35 children housed
there.
(Color) Lori Santoro holds her 18-month-old daughter Marcela, who
was adopted from a Bolivian orphanage, and a picture of Sara, the
little girl Santoro met on a beach in Mexico in 1987. The needy child
inspired Santoro to start a charity called "Casa de Sara"
to serve the children of Central and South America. News-Sentinel
photo by Joe Howell; DIGITAL PHOTO - 0718CASADESARA.JHCopyright 2001
Knoxville News-Sentinel Co.
Record Number: 432096
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